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HRC Foundation’s Children, Youth and Families Program Empowers LGBTQ Youth

As we close out Pride 2017, it is a pleasure to shine the light on an organization that is making strides for the LGBTQ community. Human Rights Campaign was founded in 1980 and has been promoting fairness for LGBTQ people since. Our guest post is written by Sula Malina, the HRC Foundation Children Youth and Families Program Coordinator.

The Human Rights Campaign (HRC) is America’s largest civil rights organization working to achieve equality for LGBTQ people. HRC envisions a world where LGBTQ people are embraced as full members of society at home, at work and in every community.

HRC was founded in 1980 and began expanding our reach in 1995, creating a Family Project that became part of our educational arm, the HRC Foundation.

HRC Foundation builds support for LGBTQ people among families and friends, co-workers and employers, pastors and parishioners, doctors and teachers, neighbors, and the general public. Through several programs and projects, HRC is enhancing the lived experiences of LGBTQ people and their families, as we change hearts and minds across America and around the globe.

One of the programs, Children, Youth, and Families, creates welcoming, affirming and supportive environments for LGBTQ prospective parents, LGBTQ-led families and LGBTQ youth through innovative training and direct consultation with schools, child welfare agencies and other service providers.

The program’s projects include:

  • The All Children — All Families Project trains child welfare professionals to improve agency policies and practices around LGBTQ foster and adoptive families, as well as LGBTQ children and youth.
  • The Welcoming Schools Project is the nation’s premier program dedicated to creating respectful and supportive elementary schools in embracing family diversity, creating LGBTQ-inclusive schools, preventing bias-based bullying, creating gender-expansive schools, and supporting transgender and non-binary students.
  • HRC Foundation’s Youth Ambassadors amplify the important voices of teens and young adults and help HRC Foundation improve the lives of LGBTQ youth at home, at school, at work, and beyond.

Roddy Biggs, an HRC Youth Ambassador who experienced bullying and harassment after coming out as gay at the age of 12, sees his position as a unique opportunity:

“I now work to promote the message that life gets better, and it is important to never give up. I know first hand that being a member of the LGBTQ community in today’s society can be very difficult. I know how hard it can be to come out, to feel accepted in your school or community. I hope that, as a Youth Ambassador, I can help LGBTQ youth get the resources they need to feel safe, loved, and accepted, and to let them know that there is hope and someone who loves them out there.”

Biggs and his fellow Youth Ambassadors travel to the annual Time to THRIVE Conference, a national conference to promote safety, inclusion and well-being for LGBTQ youth. Youth Ambassadors Tyler Yun and Paolo Veloso expressed their appreciation for the intersectional focus of the 2017 Time to THRIVE conference:

“Attending the Time to THRIVE conference was a great way to feel solidarity with the youth of color ambassadors throughout the country as we are pushing for our combined liberation.” — Tyler Yun

“I am a poor, bisexual, Asian-American immigrant. Each of these are often invisible identities in the larger LGBTQ community, and because of that, many queer people like me do not feel like we belong. Time to THRIVE has been such an important and formative experience for me because it showed me that my experiences and identities have value.” — Paolo Veloso

HRC is proud to call the Born This Way Foundation an ally in our effort to empower LGBTQ youth and families across the nation. Click here for a comprehensive look at HRC Foundation. Click here for highlights of HRC Foundation’s programs and projects follows.

Lady Gaga: Substitute Teacher

Most of us had the occasional substitute teacher in school, but we bet they were never quite like the one that came to this Los Angeles classroom:

Today we are thrilled to unveil this important message starring our very own co-founder, Lady Gaga, as part of our partnership with Staples and DonorsChoose.org! Check out the video – and share it with your friends and family! – to see how Lady Gaga brought an extra dose of kindness with her when she visited a middle school earlier this month.

Staples, through their Staples for Students program, helps to make sure students have the materials and resources they need to learn and teachers across America use DonorsChoose.org to fund projects that address their students’ needs. Together, we’re teaming up to support positive school climates and inspire kinder classrooms.

According to a report by Sesame Workshop, 86% of teachers and 70% of parents say they worry often that the world is an unkind place for children. Born This Way Foundation, Staples, and DonorsChoose.org believe we can change that, starting with our schools.

Just check out these amazing projects teachers are hoping to fund to inspire their students to be kinder and support their emotional wellness:

Want to help? Visit Staples for Students to learn how you can support this partnership AND enter to win a $50,000 scholarship and a trip for two to an upcoming Lady Gaga concert!

We’re Teaming Up with Staples to Bring More Positivity to Classrooms Nationwide

We are thrilled to announce that we’re partnering with Staples to empower students and teachers alike to foster more positive and welcoming environments in our schools. As part of the incredible “Staples for Students” program, we’ll be working with Staples and the phenomenal DonorsChoose.org to help ensure that every child can learn in a classroom that supports their needs and sparks their imagination.

In the words of our Co-Founder Lady Gaga, “Classrooms that are positive and welcoming are classrooms where students can discover their passions and unlock their full potential…Kindness is one of the most important and most impactful values we can instill in students, and I look forward to working with Staples to foster positive classroom environments where every student feels safe, heard, and empowered.”

Stay tuned for more exciting details – including how you can help support this partnership AND enter to win a $50,000 scholarship and a chance to see Lady Gaga in concert. In the meantime, please join us in thanking Staples for their generous support. Together, we can create kinder, more positive environments for young people across the country.

Raising A Cup To Kindness

In 2017, together with our co-founder Lady Gaga, we launched the #CupsOfKindness Collection with Starbucks. We hoped our four drinks would encourage everyone to start their day with a little extra kindness.

And the results couldn’t be more inspiring!

Thousands of you joined us in spreading love and joy through #CupsOfKindness. We saw #CupsOfKindness photos from around the country, from hundreds of different Starbucks. With your help, we raised over $250,000 – wow.

It means so much to us to see our community rise up for kindness. Every act of kindness, no matter how small, makes a difference to someone. Whether it’s finding a moment of self-care in a busy day or surprising the stranger in line behind you with a cup of coffee, the world gets a little brighter when you make time for kindness.

Thank you to Starbucks for working with us to make this amazing collection come to life. And thank you to everyone who supported us with a #CupsOfKindness purchase.

Below are just some of our favorite moments from the last week! Did you try #CupsOfKindness? Which one was your favorite? Tell us in the comments!

Spreading Kindness One Cup At A Time

This week, I am filling my social media feed with joyous pictures of the incredible Born This Way Foundation team sharing Cups of Kindness, explaining our mission to the Starbucks customers, trying on green aprons, and making funny faces in Starbucks stores across the country.

I am so proud of our partnership with Starbucks and so grateful to our fearless leader, Lady Gaga, for her vision and passion and bringing this partnership to life. I’ve tried to write a sentence more than once that starts with “why this matters to me..” and it has been a hard sentence to write, so I just posted another cute picture.

The Starbucks partnership matters because the words that you see every day matter – the ones on signs as you cross the street, on menus as you order your coffee, and on Saturday morning adventures that you have with your kids. If there is one word I want to see more of in this world, it’s kindness and I’m glad that more than 12,000 stores across the country (and Canada!) have kindness on the menu this week and brought to life by the incredible talent of their baristas.

The people reading those words matter.


For me, kindness is part of my every day language. I feel it when it’s present and I know how to find it when it’s not. For many people, kindness is not part of their every day vocabulary and hopefully, this partnership can help change that – for people who deserve to be celebrated for their own acts of kindness or who are desperately seeking kindness for themselves.

Let’s start a conversation and a morning cup of coffee seems like a great place to start.

The incredibly generous donation that Starbucks is making to Born This Way Foundation matters. It matters because it will enable us to support the incredible work of young people through Channel Kindness and help us continue to lift up stories about kindness, mental wellness, and positive environments.

For me, celebrating inside of a Starbucks matters for a different reason. I am the proud mother of two incredible children. My son is a curious, intelligent, kind, athletic, sweet boy. He is my sidekick; he travels the world with me and sits on stages while I give speeches. He encourages me and together, we seek adventure and create memories. I could not imagine a world without him and he has made me a better version of myself than I could have ever imagined possible.

When my son was born, almost five years ago, I thought I was prepared. I had dragged my husband to every class our hospital had to offer and I had read every book in the Parenting section of our local bookstore. I had a Pinterest board, a baby book, and some breathing exercises. I was ready.

The days and weeks following his birth proved that I needed more than books, pinned images, and lactation consultants to survive. I wasn’t filled with joy. I wasn’t filled with anything. I was numb. I watched my life from the outside and slept every moment I could and if I happened – by some unfortunate circumstance – to be awake, I cried. I cried endless, confusing tears.

My husband, Dave, texted his friends and googled variations of “when will I get my wife back.” For both of us, each day felt like an eternity. Dave encouraged me to call my doctor and through sobs, when the doctor asked me if I wanted to hurt myself or the baby, I said “I want to walk out of this house, and back into my old life. I want to leave.”

Those are the hardest words for me to type. I know one day that my son will read these words and have questions and I know I will tell him, as I’m telling you, that I was sick. I love him more than I ever knew was possible, but I was sick. I had postpartum depression and in that moment, I could not understand or control what was happening to me. I am fortunate because I have resources – in every definition of the word – but my resources couldn’t prevent the depression, they could only help me and those around me survive it.

Three weeks after he was born, my husband and my wonderful mother in law encouraged me to leave the house for the first time. It was my 29th birthday and I hadn’t eaten, showered or gotten dressed yet. I didn’t know where to go, so I went to Starbucks. I walked in, carrying the bucket seat, followed by Dave and his mom, who watched me cautiously, aware of how fragile I was. I ordered my usual – a tall, dry cappuccino with one pump of raspberry.

That day was followed by many more trips to Starbucks, even venturing alone after a couple of weeks. Most days, I would sit and cry, or read a book, or stare at my beautiful son and wonder how I was going to be the type of mother he deserved. I would promise him that together, we would figure it out and emerge stronger. I left the house, I sat in Starbucks, and I felt like I was going to be OK.

My work at the foundation is about kindness, to yourself and to others, and it’s about reducing the stigma around mental health. It’s about the power of community, wherever you might find it, and it’s about the brave steps that we all take each day to care for ourselves and for those around us. Our work is about the power of our stories, individually and collectively.

So, go to your local Starbucks and order yourself – or someone else – a Cup of Kindness (the Violet Drink is my favorite!). And then post a picture on social media, sharing why kindness matters to you.

Tag @BTWFoundation and we’ll be sending one of our classic “Be Kind” shirts to those with our favorite stories.

Together, let’s raise money for our incredible mission and please – for my son – let’s not forget about where the money goes, why the foundation exists, and the lives – like mine – that are saved by our work.

— Maya Enista Smith, Executive Director