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5 Mental Health Tips for Back to School

This blog post first appeared on the Huff Post College Blog.

Ross Szabo is CEO of the Human Power Project.

I stared out of the window of the psychiatric ward in utter disbelief that my freshman year of college had ended, after only two months. I went to American University with so much hope. College was going to be the place where I moved forward with my life. A setting where I could meet new people, make new friends, and finally get out of my small town. I was also hoping to no longer be haunted by my bipolar disorder that plagued me in high school. Unfortunately, the change to a new environment brought out the worst episodes I had ever seen.

After days of uncontrollable mind racing thoughts, I binge drank to shut my brain down. Nights of heavy drinking eventually led to hopeless depression, thoughts of suicide, and extreme loneliness. Then the hallucinations surfaced. Slowly at first with me just hearing my name, but the delusions built to assaulting voices telling me to hurt myself, and others. Luckily, I had the awareness to call my parents and tell them I needed to come home.

It took me six long years of different colleges, treatment plans and hard work before I returned to American University and finished my degree. Now, as I travel around the country regularly speaking to college freshmen orientations, I look out at the thousands of eager students, and let them know college is a great time for them to work on their mental health. It’s a time of growth and newness that offers some of the best opportunities to learn about oneself.

Here are some vital mental health tips as students get back to class:

1. Change can be a trigger. The first time you’re on your own it can be a really freeing feeling. However, that major change can also bring out a person’s first episode of a mental health disorder or cause a lot of anxiety/nervousness. Finding a healthy way to deal with the change like talking about the emotions with friends/family, writing about it, exercising, or connecting with others are healthy steps.

2. Get some sleep. Most students didn’t sleep a lot in high school and typically they sleep less in college. The brain doesn’t fully mature until the age of 25. Getting more than six hours of sleep helps the brain continue to develop, allows a person to retain more knowledge, and provides better health overall. The myth of pulling all nighters for last minute papers or studying is never more effective than getting sleep.

3. Think About How You Cope. The ways that students cope with difficult events like rejection, loss and change in high school can carry over to college. The longer a person uses a coping mechanism the harder it can be to change. Students who come to college that are coping by isolating themselves, abusing drugs/alcohol, zoning out with TV or video games, or other negative methods have a chance to take time and develop healthier ways to cope with life’s challenges.

4. If You Have a Mental Health Disorder Have a Plan. For students that already have a diagnosed mental health disorder, it’s vital to know what support you need before you go to college. Talking to a mental health professional to determine what kinds of resources are available is a good first step. Have regular check ins with family/friends to monitor any changes. Set up an appointment with the counseling center to learn more about what is available on campus. Try to normalize mental health as a part of a student’s life rather than solely focusing on or isolating the mental health disorder.

5. Make Mistakes. Students feel a lot of pressure to never mess up or fail, but those experiences are a part of life and can help people become much stronger. As students go through a process of learning about themselves, mistakes are bound to happen. The best way to achieve positive mental health is to learn from past mistakes.

Hi from Beverly Hills!

This blog post first appeared on Daniella Cohen’s blog

Wow. It is hard to express how lucky and inspired I feel. I recently attended meetings for the Youth Advisory Board to Born This Way Foundation, founded by Lady Gaga and her mother. At the core of the foundation are two key values: kindness and bravery. The foundation supports and inspires youth by recognizing the importance of emotions.  We had an incredible meeting with Jason Collins: former NBA player, current advocate and role model. He shared his emotional story of adversity and bravery. He said, “Adversity is a challenge, a challenge to overcome. Live an authentic life.” Jason is a role model for bravery; he inspires countless young people to face their emotions in order to live a genuine life. He explained that the kindness of his friends and family enabled him to live authentically. It is up to my generation to change the way we view emotions; it is up to us to change the social climate and live authentic lives.

Not only is the foundation shining a light on an important yet stigmatized subject, the foundation is taking action by launching an #EmotionRevolution. The Revolution is  “A joint initiative between the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and Born This Way Foundation to build awareness around the critical role of emotions in learning, decision-making, and both student and educator wellness and effectiveness.” I cannot wait to continue learning and working with the foundation to embody Lady Gaga’s vision of a better world.

Kindness and bravery matter. Emotions matter. Mental health is something we need to talk about.

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Big Change Can Come in Small Packages

This post first appeared on the Huff Post Impact blog.

Co-authored by Susan Benedetto, Co-Founder of Exploring the Arts

As the co-founders of two organizations dedicated to helping young people, we have had the pleasure of working with like-minded partners throughout the country. This has allowed us a view into the tremendous efforts of nonprofits of all types and shown us that good work truly comes in all sizes. While national, big-name groups can have a tremendous reach, organizations that provide programming and resources on the ground – no matter how small – are a vital component of the nonprofit ecosystem.

Born This Way Foundation and Exploring the Arts understand the importance of meeting youth where they are. Born This Way Foundation has engaged with thousands of young people around the country through initiatives such as the Born Brave Bus Tour, which connected teens with resources and services in their areas. Exploring the Arts addresses the staggering reductions in arts education in our nation’s schools by working collaboratively with high need public high schools to restore and create rigorous and sustainable arts programs that impact over 16,000 students annually.

This shared commitment to interacting directly with young people inspired us to use the Cheek to Cheek tour – headlined by our co-founders, Tony Bennett and Lady Gaga – as a way to shine a light on like-minded groups throughout the country. We felt it was important to acknowledge these nonprofits who work tirelessly and with such heart to uplift our young people.

In cities throughout the country, we featured organizations who demonstrated excellence in empowering youth to become compassionate, creative, and bold. And although the tour has come to a close, the local organizations highlighted along the way continue to invest in the young people they are dedicated to supporting.

Take, for example, the Los Angeles-based groups Venice Arts – which offers high-impact arts education for low-income youth – and TEEN LINE which provides a confidential teen-to-teen hotline that receives more than 10,000 calls, texts and emails each year. In the Bay Area, the Community Youth Center offers sports programs that coach more than 1,800 youth and academic tutoring centers that help over 200 kids daily, from all over the community and every walk of life.

Green Star Movement, a nonprofit in Chicago, has worked with more than 5,000 youth to transform over 50 public spaces, including schools, parks, and community centers, with beautiful murals. Houston’s Kids in a New Groove provides private music lessons and instruments to children in the Texas foster care system, seeking to change the grim statistics on youth aging out of foster care, while Workshop Houstonhas provided hands-on creative learning resources for under-served youth for over a decade. CHRIS Kids, an organization in Atlanta, offers behavioral health services and support systems for children, youth, and families to help them overcome trauma and increase self-sufficiency.

Finally, in New York, we partnered with four organizations that do great work throughout the five boroughs. Eye to Eye – which also has chapters throughout the U.S. – is the only national mentoring movement that pairs kids labeled as “learning disabled” or with ADHD diagnoses with similarly labeled college students as mentors with an art-based curriculum. Little Kids Rock partners with school districts to train educators to teach popular music and provides new instruments to students in public schools. Girl Be Heard provides a safe space for girls to write, direct, and perform theater productions under the guidance of professional directors, playwrights, actors, activists and intellectuals. Scenarios USA sponsors a youth writing contest where winning stories are translated into powerful short films.

We believe in the power of bravery, creativity, and self-expression to empower young people and are honored to have worked with groups that are promoting these values locally. During the past four months, we have been inspired by the power of local organizations to fulfill this mission. Each Cheek to Cheek tour date was an opportunity to highlight a group that is doing excellent work in neighborhoods around the country.

While large national and international organizations often dominate press coverage, it is important to remember the work that smaller organizations are uniquely equipped to accomplish – tackling the distinct issues that affect local geographies. It is such groups that are able to reach specific audiences that require special attention in order to achieve real change. Working together, we can help ensure these organizations – and in turn the young people they serve – receive the recognition and resources needed to keep going.

Cynthia Germanotta is the co-founder and president of Born This Way Foundation, which she founded with her daughter, Lady Gaga, to “empower youth” and “inspire bravery.”

Susan Benedetto is the co-founder and Board President of Exploring the Arts, an organization she founded with her husband Tony Bennett. A certified and licensed New York state teacher, she began her Social Studies teaching career at the Fiorello H. LaGuardia High School of Music & Art and the Performing Arts, a prestigious public high school in Manhattan. Susan next worked as a Social Studies Teacher and then as Assistant Principal at the Frank Sinatra School of the Arts, a public high school in Astoria, Queens that she co-founded with her husband. Before entering the field of education, Susan was the owner of Creative Artists Management in New York, where she advised artists in the management of their careers, along with coordinating publicity, bookings and recording projects.

Meet Our Youth Advisory Board!

Born This Way Foundation is very excited to announce our second Youth Advisory Board! We cannot wait to work with these bright young minds who will help advise the Foundation on issues facing youth everywhere and serve as ambassadors for our work in their communities and schools. Here’s what Lady Gaga herself had to say to them!

 

These nine diverse representatives come from around the country and embody a wide range of experiences and backgrounds. They are non-profit founders, youth advocates, community organizers, journalists, educators, peer advisors, and entrepreneurs. Their dedication and passion to the Foundation’s core mission of promoting kindness and bravery is inspiring.

With their help, Born This Way Foundation will expand our ability to reach youth on line, on the road, and down the street. We recognize that the work of building a kinder and braver world takes time, collaboration, and commitment and these new members of our Youth Advisory Board will be essential to accomplishing those goals.

Meet our new Youth Advisory Board Members:

Simone Bernstein

SimoneSimone, a native of St. Louis, Missouri, was inspired to become involved with community service after seeing the outpouring of support her family received when her dad was deployed. Simone and her brother launched VolunTEEN Nation, a national youth-led nonprofit which has connected more than 93,500 youth with service projects. Simone, who is also on the Board of Directors of Youth Service America, has spoken at numerous conferences throughout the world and has a column at the Huffington Post. She was a 2010 L’Oreal Paris Woman of Worth, one of the 2013 Forbes 30 under 30 Social Entrepreneurs, one of Glamour’s 2013 Top 10 College Women, and a 2014 Traditional Home Magazine Classic Woman. Simone sees service and volunteering as key to combining classroom learning with hands-on problem solving in the community.

 

Adejire Bademosi

AdejireAdejire is a Public Policy and Community Outreach Fellow at Twitter. A Maryland native, Adejire has been a youth advocate for over 15 years. In 2008, Adejire became the first African American woman elected as a student to the Howard County School Board. During her tenure, Adejire increased youth participation in policy committees and advocated for testing reform – efforts which were recognized by TIME magazine. Adejire has also launched FoundHER to support the leadership potential of high school and college women through workshops and mentorship in Boston and New York and has served as a member of the State Farm Youth Advisory Board and as a member of the Brookings Institution Global Citizenship Learning Metric Task Force 2.0. She has been named one of the “24 Under 24 Youth Changemakers” in the United States.

 

Daniella Cohen

DaniellaDaniella, a rising junior at Highland Park High School in Illinois, is the co-founder of GIVE. The project funds and installs internet, films educational peer to peer videos, and sends computers, letters, and flip flops signed with messages of hope to schools in India, Uganda and Rwanda. Daniella has spoken at TEDxRedmond about “The Evolution of Lunch Tables,” School 21 in London, the Harvard College Social Innovation Collaborative, and Northwestern University’s “Opportunities for the Future” conference. She has also led Ashoka’s Youth Venture workshops at George Washington University and Marquette University. Daniella has received several awards including the Princeton Prize in Race Relations, Build-A-Bear’s Huggable Hero, Prudential’s Spirit of Community Award, and was a finalist for the Gloria Barron Prize. She was featured in “30 International Social Entrepreneurs,” a documentary by GoYoung and was awarded an Honorable Mention in the White House Student Film Festival for her documentary film “The Impact of GIVE: White House Student Film Festival 2015.”

 

Ola Ojewumi

OlaOla works for a federal agency in Washington, D.C. She is also a contributor for the Huffington Post and her writings have been published by the White House, Marie Claire Magazine, and the American Association of University Women. She founded two nonprofits, Sacred Hearts Children’s Transplant Foundation and the Project ASCEND College Scholarship Program, after receiving a heart and kidney transplant. These efforts have been recognized by the White House, MTV, Glamour, Intel, Essence, and the Huffington Post. Additionally, Glamour has named Ola among the top 10 most influential college women in the United States. Ola previously interned for the White House, Congresswoman Nancy Pelosi, the Democratic National Committee, and Congressmen Albert R. Wynn. Additionally, she has served as Public Policy and International Affairs Fellow at the University of California, Berkeley and as a DNC Hope Fellow.

 

Dennis Ojogho

DennisDennis is a Los Angeles native studying Government at Harvard College. The son of Nigerian immigrants, he is passionate about addressing social justice issues, including mass incarceration, voter disenfranchisement, and education inequality. He has served as an editorial writer for The Harvard Crimson and volunteers as a citizenship tutor, working one-on-one with recent immigrants to help them pass the U.S. Naturalization Test. Dennis ultimately hopes to return to his community to help effect positive social change as a civil rights lawyer.

 

Jessica Ou

JessicaJessica is a junior at UC Berkeley studying Business and Social Welfare. She is particularly interested in youth empowerment and gender equity. She has served as a volunteer and peer educator for the Gender Equity Resource Center on campus, where she spread awareness about LGBTQ issues. She also serves on the Youth Advisory Council of the Crisis Text Line, the world’s first 24/7 text-only crisis line for teens. She is also involved in various organizations ranging from Youth Service America to the International Youth Council, striving to empower youth to believe that they have the power to make change.

 

Gillian Parker

GillianGillian is a rising high school senior from California. Her mother introduced her and the rest of her family to the importance of giving back with their annual family foundation meetings where the Junior Board Members give grants and visit a local non-profit to see their impact. Gillian has traveled to Ecuador with other inspiring youth leaders and started a micro-lending business in her host community there. Drawing on her personal experiences – including her father’s suicide – and her passion to improve mental health, she also started her own club to empower her peers and a Shame Share project to pull others out of fear and silence.

 

 

Renee Pelletier

ReneeRenee is a rising freshman at Mt. Holyoke College. When she turned twelve, she started to volunteer at her local community center, providing free childcare for parents who were studying to pass their GEDs, and she is still involved today. In her junior year of high school she found the courage to come out of the closet and joined her high school’s Gay-Straight Alliance. She has also become an administrator on the Facebook page Have a Gay Day, a member of the Reconciling Congregations Methodist movement, and a student on the leadership council for the Massachusetts Gay Straight Alliance Network. Through her work with LGBT youth, she recently earned the Elsie Frank Scholarship from the Greater Boston PFLAG.

 

Christopher Rim

ChristopherChristopher, a current psychology major at Yale University, has had an entrepreneurial spirit since the age of 13. After recognizing problems of access for key societal needs, Christopher became interested in designing and building structures to improve community life and access to services. In 8th grade, Christopher founded a tutoring company, Prestige Review Group, which was acquired by a Shanghai-based consulting firm in 2014. At 15, he started the national anti-bullying nonprofit, It Ends Today, Inc., after the suicide of a family friend. He currently oversees over 350 active volunteers in six different countries and is also responsible for facilitating visits to over 400,000 students and counselors every year. Christopher was the state and national recipient of the AXA Equitable Scholarship and has been featured in TIME Magazine, Forbes, Good Morning America, the TODAY Show, and the Huffington Post.

What’s Next For The Emotion Revolution?

July 27, 2015

Last week youth and young adults from across the country joined forces with Born This Way Foundation, Yale’s Center for Emotional Intelligence, educators, psychologists, and policy makers for a two-day meeting at Facebook’s headquarters. Our purpose was to plan for the launch of Emotion Revolution on October 24, 2015.

Emotion Revolution is a youth-inspired national initiative to create emotionally-healthy schools—places where adults and students want to be—places where everyone is valued, learning is inspiring, and opportunities are created.

Facebook’s campus was a perfect location for this meeting. The campus was filled with people learning, working, and actively engaging with one another, which is what we did as well.

Several members of BTWF’s youth advisory board (YAB) joined us in brainstorming ideas and developing plans for the Emotion Revolution that we hope will ensure that our nation’s schools are welcoming, inspiring places. One youth, Adejire, said “When technology and social good unite, the possibilities for scale and impact are immense, yet measurable. This is just the beginning.” Another YAB member, Daniella, stated, “This event challenged everything I thought about emotions. We all have the power to positively impact the emotions of those around us and in doing so, create a culture where emotions are respected and positively supported. I am so grateful to everyone here for believing in youth and allowing us to be the drivers of change.  I cannot wait to see what we will accomplish!”

Look for more tweets and posts using the hashtag, #EmotionRevolution as we engage in this youth-led, youth-inspired revolution!

With Gratitude,
Dr. Sue